Q is for Quarrel
I have previously been using
the online dictionary but I am going to use my Webster’s Desk dictionary to
define quarrel.
- an angry dispute or fight with words.
- a cause of dispute.
- to disagree angrily.
- to dispute angrily.
- to make a complaint
I think all of us at one
time or another have been involved in a quarrel. A quarrel is usually a little more heated than a
disagreement. It usually involves anger
and hurt feelings. Unfortunately it
also happens in churches, which can cause a split between the members. Sometimes misunderstandings are at the root
of a quarrel.
‘Agree with thine
adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the
adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer,
and thou be cast into prison. Verily I
say unto thee, Thou shalt by no means come out thence, till thou hast paid the
uttermost farthing.’ Matthew 5:25-26
I think Jesus is trying to
tell us to take care of our differences quickly before it causes more trouble
for us. We need to get things right
with our fellow man before we stand before God.
‘Moreover if thy
brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and
him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee, then take with
thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word
may be established. And if he shall
neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the
church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican.’ Matthew
18:15-17
There are proper ways to
handle disagreements in church and we have a guidebook to follow.
until next time…nel
It's too bad that even within the church we sometimes forget about that guidebook.
ReplyDeleteHave a lovely weekend, Nel.