G
is for Gossip
There
are a variety of definitions for gossip which include:
1: a person who
habitually reveals personal or sensational facts about others
2 a : rumor or
report of an intimate nature
b : a chatty talk
c : the subject
matter of gossip
In the Webster’s Desk
Dictionary it is defined as: idle talk
or rumor, esp. about the private affairs of others; a person given to such
talk; a casual conversation; to relate or spread gossip.
Unfortunately a lot of
gossip goes on in circles of women and men, whether it be at gatherings, club
meetings or at church. Sometimes people
especially women try to cover themselves by first saying they are telling it in
love or they have something they need to share. Hello, gossip is gossip and it is a sin. At times we tend to quit looking for the
good in people and concentrate on their faults. When we start feeling critical
of someone we need to list their positive qualities and concentrate on
those. We need to remember that gossip
tears people down and that is not what God wants from us. He wants us to be
busy in His work, not busybodies.
“For all the law is
fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as
thyself. But if ye bite and devour one
another, take heed that ye be not consumed of another.” Galatians 5:14-15
“He that hideth hatred with
lying lips, and he that uttereth a slander, is a fool." Proverbs
10:18
“For we hear that there are
some which walk among you disorderly, working not at all, but are
busybodies. Now them that are such we
command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and
eat their own bread." 2 Thessalonians 3:11-12
As my mom used to say, “If
you do not have something good to say about someone then it does not bear
repeating.”
until next time… nel
Your mother is very wise and it appears her daughter is as well.
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Great post, Nel! My grandma used to say, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all."
ReplyDeleteGood reminder.
ReplyDeleteMy mom said what Kathy's mom did. This is another good post, Nel. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteHi Nel,
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this,
You said it, of course Gossip is not at all good especially one who love God,
Let us be away from those who do gossip, well presented with relevant Bible verses.
Keep it up
Ann